Marriage: The Foundation of Happiness or Misery In todayâ€™s world, 50 percent of marriages end in divorce. Although the other 50 percent of marriages donâ€™t end in divorce, not all those marriages are considered an ideal marriage. The concept of an ideal marriage has changed as time has progressed. An ideal marriage in our time is a marriage based on love and family. Most societies have always had the same perspective of an ideal marriage during their time periods. However, in Jane Austenâ€™ Pride and Prejudice, the author defies the view of the ideal marriage of her society by giving her own perspective on an ideal marriage.
In the time period of Pride and Prejudice, society viewed ideal marriage as one based on financial stability and social equality. Although Jane Austenâ€™s view of an ideal marriage includes financial and social stability, love was a major factor as well. In the novel, Jane Austen writes about suitable marriages and unsuitable marriages. Although the marriages based on wealth and social class seems suitable through societyâ€™s eyes, Jane Austen suggests those marriages to be unsuitable because of their lack of love and happiness.
In the novel, many of the marriages reflect societyâ€™s view of marriage as a business affair and these marriages are quite unsuitable. Although Mr. and Mrs. Bennet have been married for 23 years, there is no mutual affection between them. Mr. Bennet married Mrs. Bennet because he was â€œcaptivated by [her] youth and beautyâ€¦ he married a woman whose weak understanding and illiberal mind had very early in their marriage put an end to all real affection for herâ€ (202). Mr. Bennet practically never communicates with his wife and when he does, he teases her for his own enjoyment.
Their marriage was solely based on physical attraction which has now faded away. Both of these characters were mismatched in personality and in social class. However, this couple isnâ€™t the only unsuitable marriage through Austenâ€™s eyes. Mr. Collins and Charlotte are a couple that exhibits everything Jane Austen is against, which is a marriage solely based on financial and social security. Mr. Collins and Charlotte Lucas married each other just for their own personal gain. When Mr. Collins proposed, â€œMiss Lucas, accepted him solely from the pure and disinterested desire of an establishmentâ€ (106).
Charlotte was 27 and single, her future didnâ€™t look great so marrying Mr. Collins was the best thing that could have happened. She is now set â€œconsidering Mr. Collinsâ€™ character, connection and situation in life, [she was] convinced that [her] chance of happiness with him [was] as fair as most can boast on entering the marriage stateâ€ (109). Mr. and Mrs. Collins arenâ€™t really a couple based on love and happiness which is what Jane Austen considered suitable. She marries a man who is richer and socially higher than her. Although Mr. and Mrs.
Collinsâ€™ marriage was considered ideal by society, Jane Austen thought it to be unsuitable. Jane Austenâ€™s ideal marriage is a marriage based on love and happiness but also the aspects of societyâ€™s ideal marriage which includes financial and social stability. Mr. Bingley and Jane Bennet and Elizabeth Bennet and Mr. Darcy all exhibit the qualities of marriage that are considered suitable by Jane Austen. Mr. Bingley is an extremely wealthy modest man who never judges anyone and Jane is a quiet gentle woman who never thinks badly of anyone.
Both these characters are matched perfectly and are one of the rare couples in the novel who genuinely love each other though their love seems very superficial. Although Jane and Mr. Bingley exhibit an ideal marriage, their love has no depth. Mr. Bingley doesnâ€™t seem to care about marrying a woman based on her social class or wealth. He believes love is more important than the match of social class in a marriage. This is seen when Mr. Darcy convinces Mr. Bingley that Jane doesnâ€™t actually love him and Bingley abandons Jane.
Since love matters he doesnâ€™t want to be with someone who doesnâ€™t love him back. However, they had an instant connection: â€œit was generally evident whenever they met he did admire her; and to her it was equally evident that Jane was yielding to the preference which she had begun to entertain for him from the first, and was in a way to be very much in loveâ€(16). They are both in love, both happy, and are both financially secure, exhibiting an ideal marriage for Jane Austen. However there was a couple that was more ideal through Jane Austenâ€™s eyes.
Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth Bennet epitomize the ideal marriage for Jane Austen. At first, Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth disliked each other and had no initial attraction towards one another. However, as the novel progresses, their attraction for each other grows and soon they fall in love. Elizabeth isnâ€™t a woman who doesnâ€™t want to marry just for financial security or to be higher within the social class. Her view of marriage is different than her friends; Elizabeth â€œhad always felt that Charlotteâ€™s opinion of matrimony was not exactly like er own, but she could not have supposed it possible that when called into action, she would have sacrificed every better feeling to worldly advantageâ€ (110). Charlotte represents societyâ€™s view of marriage in her time period which regarded marriage as a business affair. However, Elizabeth is one of the few characters to believe that marriage is based on love. Mr. Darcy is the wealthiest man in the novel and with that kind of wealth, he could marry anyone.
However, he chooses Elizabeth who is part of a lower class than him proving that he wants to marry Elizabeth because he is in love with her. Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth are both physically attractive, intelligent, and they both love each other dearly. They are the ideal couple in Jane Austenâ€™s eyes. Jane Austen suggests the marriages that are based on social class and wealth to be unsuitable although they seem ideal through societyâ€™s eyes. Austen believed that a suitable marriage had to include love and happiness on top of financial security and social class.
However, through societyâ€™s eyes â€œhappiness in marriage [was] entirely a matter of chanceâ€ (18). Although in todayâ€™s world there are arranged marriages based on social class and wealth, most people in todayâ€™s society believe marriage to be based on a foundation of love which links back to Austenâ€™s belief of marriage. Although Jane believed that a suitable marriage had to include love, financial security and physical attraction, todayâ€™s society believes a suitable marriage can be solely based on love for one another.
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